LOVE THIS ~~ Positive reinforcement ~~ Put a cotton ball, marble, pom-pom, etc. in every time you catch your child being good. Do something special when it's full. This is exactly what I need instead of focusing on the bad.
10 Things Not to Say to Your Kids- and what to say instead. A great list! I need to read and repeat a few times until this becomes ingrained. Some I already use and they are more effective. Others....all I can say is that I am still learning!