Yet, the narcissist has a TON of undesirable behaviors on the chronic and the nastiest insecurities imaginable, which makes it impossible to sustain a decent relationship/friendship long-term. The narcissist will LIVE to get a reaction out of you when they're not feeling good enough (which is nearly all the time), even when they are aware of your dislikes. The narcisssist is the quickest to judge and can EASILY criticize a person/situation that is none of their business. Also...beware of narcissists that want access to you out of vindictiveness. Some of them CARE TOO MUCH, but that is why they take their precious time (and even neglect their present partner) to screw you over. Some don't want to admit that they actually care since vindicitiveness is all about emotion.
