"At the bottom of the cake, hide whatever the groom likes. sports mascot, band logo, anything". or Spiderman. Always Spiderman. "Because it's just as much his day as it is yours" and Spiderman is awesome
DIY wedding facts (a) I kinda like this. you can have "her" on one side and "him" on the other. This is a good idea for guests who may not know one or the other very well. - I also like this for fun facts about each others family
Topper to cut and minis to serve. this idea is mindblowing :-) What about vintage decorated mini-cakes instead of cupcakes? As long as there's enough for everyone. Put cupcakes on table around cake & mini-cakes? Yep loving that idea!