Believe what you see, f*ck what you hear: I would have wholeheartedly agreed with this 2yrs ago - now, I believe that some people can be so deliberately destructive towards someone else that what you hear is what they believe & what they depict, what you see, is an absolute falsity. Use all the senses, then form a conclusion based on actuals.
True, but if it's meant to be, you will wait until he's ready. I waited 9 years for him to marry me. He swore off marriage after a disastrous first one, so I had to be patient. 12 years together and going strong. <3