Infj, especially the ethical part. Sometimes it would be nice to be able to be just as scummy as the person who did you wrong but it's not really an option for an Infj because our moral compasses are so strong we'd hate ourselves afterwards..
Start doing what makes you happy. If you're not happy with your job, quit. You'll find a new one. If your significant other is constantly causing you stress or sadness, break up. Find a better fit. If you hate your living situation, move. Nothing is worth it if you aren't #happy. Happiness, after all, is everything.