"If you're physically fit, hungry to learn and be better, I urge you to travel - as far and widely as possible. Sleep on floors if you have to. Find out how other people leave and eat and cook. Learn from them - wherever you go." ...or any age, really.
I have learned you can spend years with someone , and never see this part of them ! Why because they have been hurt in there past , and chose to believe everyone else is the same ! No matter how much they can see that you are different from all the rest !