do 2 hearts get 3 chances? now you're here in front of me and the future's open ended. If kittens got 9 lives and the zombies resurrected, then it could be with you and me; this pattern's never ending.
Do not let your relationship turn into one person only being dominant/submissive-share each role, it will turn into an unhealthy relationship otherwise. Use "I see it differently" in difficult relationships.