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I've had to really work on this. I used to think that if I was kind to someone they would be naturally kind back and when they weren't it hurt. This mostly happened with girls that I wanted to be friends with...now I'm still nice, but super-picky with who I choose to let get that close.
she had rings on her fingers & bells on her shoes and i knew without asking she was into the blues. she wore scarlet begonias tucked into her curls, i knew right away she was not like other girls... Grateful Dead