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But you can learn to forgive and move forward, and extend grace. BUT you can NEVER EVER move forward until you have moved through the pain. Wherever you heard that, they were telling you a lie from satan. Why? Because that lie sprang forth from the father of lies and they both need to be told STOP, read God's Word. Then tell satan to go back to Hell. "Resist the devil and he will flee from you."
Once you realize that the outcome of most of the things you worry about don't change your life one way or the other, you can let go. Funny, it is usually other people's drama that "worries" me. My life is relatively drama free. Im learning to let go.