Setting SMART goals- also good for school counselling programs. A great starting point for anyone setting goals, no matter how old! Always a good idea to go back to basics, especially if we find our goals are getting too large and unattainable.
"Life Skills for Kids: Equipping Your Child for the Real World" by Christine Field -- really great read for parents! Even as a proactive parent, I've put into place many more things the kids need to learn since reading this.