"Have your doctor write down if it's a boy or girl and put it in an envelope. Take the envelope to a clothing store and pick one boy and one girl outfit. Tell the cashier to look inside the envelope and wrap the corresponding outfit. Open around family
Fill a glove with beans, pearled barley, rice, etc. Give a few pats and slip quietly away. This was a LIFESAVER when my daughter was an infant. I would nuke mine in the microwave to make it warm and helped soothe her too.