Forget all the psycho-babel-bullcrap; deep down your heart's love for someone is real. But Never again will I ever allow others to have me think I am somehow codependent. Mourn it, let it go, move on, and be wiser for the next journey,never ever be confused again; Something i have thought myself to learn.
You got that right. Be nice! People remember when you've gossiped about them about things that werent true and how horrible they felt because of it. they may not remember what the gossip was but will always have that horrible feeling attached to you so be nice, get your facts straight and treat people how you wish to be treated