Need to remember this-------it's hard to remember when you are constantly feeling like things are working against you, especially when you thought things were turning around. It kinda kicks you back into being a cynical, closed off, unhappy person you don't want yo be.
True... and it's better to be single and happy than taken and not in love. What a sad feeling it would be to be taken and not be in love with the person. You'd just be wasting both of your short time here. To love deeply and be loved in return is the greatest joy.