Someday your kids will grow up and be in your shoes - rushing, stressing out, trying to do 100 things at the same time, wishing life would be simpler.... Do whatever is in your control to let them enjoy their childhood NOW!
"Technology Tickets". Each Sunday give the kids 10 tickets. Each ticket = 30 minutes of t.v., game system, computer, etc. Tickets can be used consecutively, but when they are out they are out for the week.