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when we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and somedays we could tight-rope across manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth, this is normal. this is natural. this is change. - jeanette winterson
"Yes there are two paths you can go by, but in the long run there's still time to change the road you're on." I've always loved this Led Zeppelin lyric.
By "do so little for you" it really means someone who doesn't meet emotional needs you have deep down inside, reciprocate your love or service, or let you know you are deeply cared for - NOT by our society's means either (i.e. material things) but doing it in the way YOU genuinely respond to.... I have love to give regardless of my well being....Period