Hatred is a sign of love. We tend to hate someone because they pushes us away as we continue to love them and love to be with them or they could be really annoying someone we love. Otherwise, we could have just ignored them and walk away rather than hate them... that is... when love is gone. If some people have pushed you away with dislike and hatred, these people are actually thirsty and begging for more love. The greatest irony in life perhaps is that "the more we hate, the more we love".