In the beginning you meet someone that promises you they will be everything that you hoped and dreamed of and will never become that person that you fear and would never allow in their life. Slowly that person that doesn't call, doesn't answer their phone, full of excuses creeps up on your relationship. How do we stop it. When you see the signs and you will. Either nip it in the butt and be strong enough to not take it and if they continue be stronger to say good bye...xo
I dated someone like this. Never put up with it!! If someone makes you feel bad about yourself you should not be with them, it is NOT love!! Wait for someone who respects and values you and does everything he can to show you how much he loves you. Trust me, it's SO much better having a partner who puts in as much as you do :) xoxo my hubby.
“She knew her nature. She would recognize it if she came face-to-face with it...A monster that refused, sometimes, to behave like a monster. When a monster stopped behaving like a monster , did it stop being a monster? Did it become something else? Perhaps she wouldn't recognize her own nature after all.” Kristin Cashore, Graceling (Graceling Realm, #1)