I'm done choosing friends who I know won't judge me because they are such a wreck. I'm done choosing friends who need me. That's because I'm finally a wreck, who needs other people. But thank you Jesus, for humility.
You can always pick out insecure people, by listening to how many backhanded compliments and subtle insults they hand out. The people who try and act like they have it all together are usually the biggest messes!!