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its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!
Exactly. Because they dont mean anything by it. So let it go. Stop asking your girlfriends what it means...they dont know!!! No matter how knowledgable your friends seem, they arent guys. Stop driving yourself crazy and driving men away with this silliness. Just enjoy yourself and that will make you attractive.