Bellefit Postpartum Girdle. A friend of mine used this for 4 weeks after giving birth and 6 weeks later her stomach is flatter than mine! (i've never had a baby and I'm 24!) DEFINITELY on my buy list for when I get pregnant!
Positive reinforcement - Put a cotton ball, marble, pom-pom, etc. in every time you catch your child being good. Do something special when it's full. This is exactly what I need instead of focusing on the bad.