What you do to you - you do to others! So start doing it to youself : Hug the Hurt in you, Kiss the Broken in you, Befriend the Lost in you, Love the Lonely in you... then you will automatically and easily do it to others. -MW
You should want to find things that motivate you. Things that capture your interest and you feel so passionate about about. Something that brings you way to much joy before you don't get the chance to do it anymore.