I think that's why what he did bothered me so much. You don't text someone that you love them with one hand while cruising CL for c*** with the other hand. Can't stand a liar. Can't stand a hypocrite. Can't stand double standards.
"We're not alone in this. Every type of loving relationship deals with this shit. It's natural to take advantage and take for granted of the ones we love most. We have to recognize it and make sure we don't do it. Although it's a subconscious thing. I don't think there is control. The best we can do is make sure to make an effort to tell others we appreciate them."