I've said this before (I thought I was being original), but mine goes something's like this" my husband can tell someone to " go to hell" in such a way that not only do they say "I can't wait to get there", but they look forward to the trip!"
The difference between there marriage and marriages of today was the inequality of woman. The woman in the marriage was seen as just another possession the man had. Today it has evolved into an equal relationship for the most part nowadays.
Through Confirmation, we are meant to be the best Christians that we can possibly be and to be soldiers of our Lord. The Holy Spirit is given to us, because we are already baptized, so that we can become even stronger as soldiers for Christ and his Word.