This can be so tremendously hard for some people to understand (I've encountered it countless times over the course of my life). My being quiet does not mean I have anything to hide. I just don't have anything I want to, or feel like showing you.
New rule. No second chances with me. If you can't be a good person without major effort then I'm not dealing with you. Handed out second chance, third chance, sometimes even more than that but I learned my lesson.
INTJ ~ On occasion I find myself unintentionally 'dumbing down', not by design but by default to put the other person at ease. The inadvertent benefit being the discovery of their true intentions.quite by accident.