If both parents truly support shared parenting the effort towards making that happen would be equal. Bashing the other parent or fearing the kids might like it there too much is not an equal effort. Doing what is best for the child is an equal effort.
Dalai Lama: 18 Rules of Life - 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. 3. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. more . . .
15 Things You Need to Give Up if You Want to Be Happy
It is such a shame that we dwell on these which in turn cause us to have health issues and other problems that diminish our quality of life . I don't know if you have ever thought about this but to me , it is not LIVING , it is COPING or SURVIVING. Very sad as you have nothing to look forward to the next day. I believe in trying to stay positive but in my case I'm losing the battle. I would still like to volunteer for the Vets when I can as I feel that is where my heart is. I don't know…