Finding Your Flirt

Information for women about flirting from Shelly O'Connell, Flirting Coach for Women. Shelly is an expert flirt and author of Finding Your Flirt. Flirting…
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You can absolutely Use Props to Flirt! The woman in the image is using a sunhat as a prop to flirt. She is flirting with her eyes above the brim of the hat. You can easily see that she is conveying her interest and intention with her eyes. She is also being playful and suggestive by using the hat to cover her upper torso. This leaves the person she is flirting with curious about what she might be wearing or not behind the sunhat. Read the full blog post on the website.
Friday’s Flirt – Use Props to Flirt
You can absolutely Use Props to Flirt! The woman in the image is using a sunhat as a prop to flirt. She is flirting with her eyes above the brim of the hat. You can easily see that she is conveying her interest and intention with her eyes. She is also being playful and suggestive by using the hat to cover her upper torso. This leaves the person she is flirting with curious about what she might be wearing or not behind the sunhat. Read the full blog post on the website.
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Elevate Your Day with Play
Whenever you are having an off day, or you feel stressed, blah, or are not fully yourself remember that you can Elevate Your Day with Play. Participating in play has the ability to lift you and raise your mood easily. I recommend that you incorporate flirting as your go to for play because it brings a level of instant fun. Plus, you have full on engagement with others when you flirt with them. This takes both of you higher. You have this power when you flirt. Use it and make your day enjoyable.
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Create Serious Connections by Playfully Flirting
Flirting is one way to make a connection with someone because you are intentionally engaging them. And if you are being playful in your flirtation, it can make an instantaneous link between you. This prompts people that you are flirting with to lean in and show interest in you. They want to play along and engage with you in the moment. This very fun! But did you know that you can Create Serious Connections by Playfully Flirting? Learn more by reading the full blog post on the website.
Want to take your flirting abilities to the next level? Cultivate charm, confidence, and the ability to navigate romantic interactions with Flirting Mastery. This package of ten coaching calls for women provides in-depth, ongoing support to assist you in surmounting your flirting challenges, refocus on your identified goals, practice The Art of Flirting in your life, and learn advanced flirting skills. Visit the website to learn more.
Embrace Flirting Mastery
Want to take your flirting abilities to the next level? Cultivate charm, confidence, and the ability to navigate romantic interactions with Flirting Mastery. This package of ten coaching calls for women provides in-depth, ongoing support to assist you in surmounting your flirting challenges, refocus on your identified goals, practice The Art of Flirting in your life, and learn advanced flirting skills. Visit the website to learn more.
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F. L. I. R. T.
F. Fun L. Laughter I. Irresistible R. Refreshing T. Transformative Each letter of the word Flirt is described above. These are some of the attributes that being a flirt holds and also a few of the things that it gives to you and to whoever is lucky enough to be receiving your flirtation. If you would like to have fun and laughter, be irresistible, have refreshing and transformative times then flirt! Go on baby cakes, I dare you! Winking at you and sending lots of love, Shelly
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How Much Fun are You Having?
Friday’s Flirt - How Much Fun are You Having? Answer this question with complete honesty. How much fun are you having? I am hoping that you include fun every single day of the week. What's that you say? No time, too much pressure, stress, and/or things to get done in the space of a day? If this sounds familiar, take an inventory of how much pleasure or enjoyment you have in your life. Remember that you have the power to change it easily. Read the full blog post on the website.
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Take the Frustration out of Dating
It can feel overwhelming navigating the dating scene. I've worked with many women who have anxiety about dating or are simply tired of being played. You may be over it too. I am letting you know that you can Take the Frustration Out of Dating with intentional skills and awareness. Work on the flirting tips for women every week and if you need assistance schedule a conversation with me. You do not have to have frustration about dating.
Let's break it down. When you are confident you exude an energy of self-assurance in your abilities and in yourself. Not in a boastful way but in a manner of trusting yourself. This translates to most people feeling secure in your presence because truly confident people are interested in others and welcome them into their sphere of being. Everyone likes to feel accepted and welcomed. It creates an atmosphere of being able to relax and be yourself. Read the full post on the blog. Confident People, Feeling Secure, Manners, Trust Yourself, Confidence, Energy, Let It Be
Friday’s Flirt – Confidence and Fun is a Powerfully Attractive Combination.
Let's break it down. When you are confident you exude an energy of self-assurance in your abilities and in yourself. Not in a boastful way but in a manner of trusting yourself. This translates to most people feeling secure in your presence because truly confident people are interested in others and welcome them into their sphere of being. Everyone likes to feel accepted and welcomed. It creates an atmosphere of being able to relax and be yourself. Read the full post on the blog.
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Friday’s Flirt - This Started It All.
Today I am sharing the story of how I came to be a Flirting Coach for Women. I keep getting requests for the story, so I am presenting it to you now. While on a women's conference in Miami a friend asked me to help her remember how to flirt. She did flirt in the distant past but had been shut down around flirting for quite some time. I was in with a delighted yes! Get the full story by reading my blog post.
Want to stay connected with your man and keep the enjoyment of being together going? Date night has its place, however, Relationships Require Flirtation on a more regular basis in order to really flourish. Being open and curious to expanding your playful adventures together through flirtation is key to the relationship.
Use these tips to keep things interesting and fresh.  Read more on the blog post. Relationships, Fresh, Relationship, Going On A Date, Being Together, Date Night
Relationships Require Flirtation
Want to stay connected with your man and keep the enjoyment of being together going? Date night has its place, however, Relationships Require Flirtation on a more regular basis in order to really flourish. Being open and curious to expanding your playful adventures together through flirtation is key to the relationship. Use these tips to keep things interesting and fresh. Read more on the blog post.
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Mesmerize Him with Flirtation
By now you know that flirting brings you a host of fun. What you may not have realized is the impact you can have on a man when you fully embrace your inner flirt. You have the ability to Mesmerize Him with Flirtation. This means that he is utterly riveted by your playful nature, and he wants to bask in your radiant energy. What’s more, he is delighted to be receiving your focused attention. Remember, you are captivating, and he wants to be your willing partner. Why not let him?
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Flirtation Embraces Spring's Energy
Spring carries a wonderful energy of rising vitality. The dormancy of winter gives way to fresh growth. Blossoming flowers and trees entice you to notice the beauty of this season. Bees are busy pollinating those blooms so that they both flourish. Birds have begun their mating dance. Birth and blooming burst forth in a celebration of the world’s continued renewal. There is promise and hope contained within the Springtime. Read the full post on the website.
a girl standing in tall grass with the sun behind her and text reading, bring on the sunshine with flirting
Bring on the Sunshine with Flirting
Sunshine has the ability to lift your mood. Basking in the glow and the warmth of it melts your tensions to instill a sense of relaxation and ease. When you pay attention to the effects of sunshine your senses open more fully. This creates an atmosphere of enjoyment in the present moment. The attributes of sunshine listed are similar to the benefits of flirting. The only difference is that you provide them to yourself and whoever you flirt with at the time. Use the link to read the full post.
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The Art of Flirting
Learn to confidently flirt with The Art of Flirting. This program for women includes five coaching calls. Each call is sixty minutes. The key skills in the art of flirtation are included in this offer. These are the tools that are needed in order to learn to flirt. They help you to sparkle and become magnetic while allowing you to authentically express your playful nature. Learn more about The Art of Flirting by visiting the website.
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Eyes Communicate Your Interest
Using your eyes to flirt is key. Eyes Communicate Your Interest and they do it quickly. They have the ability to create immediate connections. Flirting with your eyes grabs the other person’s attention. Batting your eyes, winking, slowly looking down and then back at the other person are ways to flirt with your eyes. The real fun begins when you express your playful intention by letting it show and be communicated through your eyes. Never underestimate the eyes when it comes to flirtation.