God/Source dwells within you as you. When you open your heart and allow Divine Love to flow to another, you shift into an entirely different dimension. True love moves you back into your original state of oneness with Source.
God exposes sin not to shame us but to change us. Oh, the glorious and wonderful love of God! There is no shame in admitting your sin and accepting the discipline of God. God isn't looking to shame us and make us feel worthless!