Desire is a strong wish/want - Value is knowing the WORTH of someone. Unfortunately, this saying is true-just think before you jump into a relationship. Know your worth first. Then decide if they are worthy of you.
Original pinner said: Especially in the kitchen.. Getting better, faster, efficient & organized but already noticing attitudes change towards me. "They want to see you do good, but never better than them" sad but true. Line cook mentality, so not worried
Typically it's bc they are not happy in their own life and they feel the need to act superior in short-term situations, but that gratification will only last as long as that moment. Being a good person who lifts other people up will last a life time.