Narcissistic Family Dynamics – Playing The Hand We’re Dealt
True friend should only ask, "why arent you loud!!!!??? WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU!!!???? I WILL MURDER THE PERSON THAT CHANGED YOU!!!!!!!" At times when you arent yourself(or something similar to this! Because they will already know exactly who you are just by hanging out with you!
This is addressing personal closure in order for you to move on. If you decide to allow other people in your life, additional apologies may be needed in order to move on. But, otherwise F*ck it, move on!!