You will never win. You just won't. I'll miss the flirting, the teasing, and when you get your shit together, come back to me, and ask me out like a real man, and give me a time, date, and place. Otherwise, I'm totally over you.
Don't be the one in the way of your own success. Stop dwelling on what hasn't yet happened. Focus on what has and what will happen. Believe in the power of right now. Find hope in your future and the power within you to make all of your dreams come true.