. MEMORIES...... WE LIVE IN MOMENTS.... DO VALUE THEM.... THEY ARE THE TREASURES OF LIFE.....<<< or you can use them to help guide your children... I'm definitely doing that for mine, they will expect better than I did for a first boyfriend for sure!
This is true of all relationships, with our friends, family members, children and spouses. Always look for the good. The bad will be there if that's what you focus on but if everyone tried to see the good in each other, the world would be a happier place!