n. Now; I don’t condone going barefoot for a second! However I understand that a day in towering heels is often very painful. Solution? Get a pedi and pack a pair of flat sandals for the trip home; it’s the end-of-day comfort you require minus the skank.
This is kind of how I like to think about my little one in heaven. Even though I'm so sad I never got to meet him/her in person, I'm so thankful for the joy that precious baby brought me, and I rejoice in knowing I will see him or her in heaven someday.