This is what it feel like to be with a Narcissist. You constantly have to have your guard up to avoid all attacks. Your survival instincts kicks in, and you will do anything to protect yourself from Narcissistic Abuse.
An abuser will use invalidation as a tool of manipulation and a weapon. Invalidators let it be known directly or indirectly that their target's views and feeling do not count for anything to anybody at any time or in any way.
Repost @ emily.marie.perry on Instagram --"It took me a while to figure out why I was always confused about the rules of love, grace, forgiveness and acceptance. When the rules ebb and flow, or vary depending on whether you are the golden child or the scapegoat, you will never be able to win the game..."
Or budding narcissist son. My mother groomed my brother into the Epitome of the Ego Delusional Narcissist too and when they were busy destroying me for sport, I was too little to know what was happening. It has never ended and I now have kids of my own. Kudos mom! Good job. Now you AND the golden child can take the back door OUT! ~ Aria L.N. ~ Pic courtesy of Narcissistic Personality Disordered Mothers on FB. Check them out. I love the page.