When we are stuck in the vacumous atmosphere of planet narcissist, we can’t see the abuse for what it is. We call it Love. We try harder, making ourselves more vulnerable, more patient, more understanding, but the narc just reads that we’re available to take more supply from. The more we let them use and abuse us, they view it as tacit approval to continue to abuse us, and if we stay, that is what they will do.
Ha omg. So me. If I take that many outfits on a trip or buy more outfits out there on vacation, then I put use in everything. Lol. No lie. I will then change for comfort or for lunch time then dinner or to go somewhere hahaha.