God's plan - if you are Reformed then you love this pin. It makes me cringe. Abuse is not part of God's plan. Rape is not part of God's plan. Injustice is not God's plan. Not every experience is of God.
"Fuck excuses, learn to admit when you fuck up." This includes trusting the wrong people (and subjecting yourself to abuse). If you never admit you're involved, the same shit will happen to you, ad infinitum.
All you have to do is believe our Lord God all mighty send his only son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins! And on the third day he rose from the dead! There's no greater love that our Lord Jesus Christ!