Six Ways to Keep the "Good" in Your Boy: Guiding Your Son from His Tweens to His Teens by Dannah Gresh. One of the most important books I've ever read! “A lot of parents are afraid of these kinds of conversations. You should be more afraid of not having them.”
Remember that without struggle there is no great ending. Besides outcomes are more satisfying when you worked hard for them. That's why when Janie finally finds love with Tea Cake it seems a million times better because she fought to get to a happy place.