Daughter, Pray for your future husband. He needs your love now, even if you've never met him! Not only do I pray for you, but I also pray for your future husband, whomever he may be.that you both will have a strong relationship with God.
effort is a reflection of interest & you can't force them to see that you're worth it. be wise enough not to waste your time, patient enough not to settle, & strong enough not to force it. whatever is meant to be will be.