Start the year with an empty jar and fill it with notes about good things that happen. Then, on New Years Eve, empty it and see what awesome stuff happened that year. Good way to keep things in perspective.
You have been through so much in your life. And it seems as though you have done it all alone. I am blessed that you are part of my life now and I promise no matter what you are never going to be alone again. Love you forever and here for you always. XOX