Remember: Doing Nice Things for your family is just as good as for strangers. Don't tell them about it- just leave it for them to find. A sweet loving message or a thank you or an encouragement. Any kind word is good. The Art of the Surprise Note .
Not my circus. Not my monkeys. (Polish proverb) Every time you feel yourself getting drawn into other people's nonsense, repeat these words. Great to remember, because I am trying to not get sucked into peoples drama