tweed vest and different color tie.for mine maybe in the black or dark grey color scheme in cool prints. Why not have your Groomsmen wear the same vest/tuxedo, but all with different ties in the same color?
Something fun for guests to do at the table. What should we name our kids? What is the most romantic place we should visit? What is the best marriage advice you have ever received? What is your favorite memory of us? Where do you see us in 25 years?