Treat every person as you want to be treated and don't judge. Remember there is always at least two sides to every story, where the truth lies could be hard to tell. Always assume the best and help a person out when needed.
Lord, please surround my kids with friends and adults who point them toward You, and in ways that complement my own deficits in parenting. I will remember this one day when I have my own kids, but for now I pray this for my nieces and nephew.