The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do! What you have to do to get where you want to be may not be pretty or may not come easy, but I never said it was going to be easy, I said it was going to be worth it!
Do what YOU want: temporary, short lived happiness. Do what GOD wants & be HOLY: eternal true happiness. So what do you want: short lived, nonsustaining, false "happiness" OR true everlasting happiness? The choice is Yours