--> Don't underestimate me. I know more than I say, think more than I speak, & notice more than you realize. I hope you think twice next time you start to tell me a lie. Trust me honey, I already know the truth and I am laughing.
Don't let someone who did you wrong make you think there's something wrong with you. Don't devalue yourself because they didn't value you. Know your worth. If you have a couple solid people in your life you can trust, you're golden.
You can never share too many appreciations with your partner. We start every one of our marriage counseling sessions with couples sharing an appreciation with each other. Keeping things positive prevents crises and marriage problems down the line.