God has NOT placed most of us in the place we are. Our bad decisions and choices have landed us here. However, if we're truly Christians and give our life to God while confessing our sins, He will act and guide us where we need to be. He may not 'fix everything' as most of our current situations took some time to create.
"We're not alone in this. Every type of loving relationship deals with this shit. It's natural to take advantage and take for granted of the ones we love most. We have to recognize it and make sure we don't do it. Although it's a subconscious thing. I don't think there is control. The best we can do is make sure to make an effort to tell others we appreciate them."
In the few short months we've been together, we've overcome quite a few hurtles....and yet the thought of walking away has never crossed either of our minds. THIS is what a real relationship is....few men are actually willing to put in the effort it takes to work. I've FINALLY found one that matches my efforts.