Qui-Gon Jinn: Don& center on your anxieties, Obi-Wan. Keep your concentration here and now, where it belongs. Obi-Wan Kenobi: But Master Yoda says I should be mindful of the future. Qui-Gon Jinn: But not at the expense of the moment
I could have formed a lot of wrong opinions and missed out on a lot of very important people in my life if I had listened to what others said instead. (Believe what a person shows you; not what someone else told you about them).