So true of us. "I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance. A church filled with family and friends. I asked him what kind of wedding he wished for, He said One that would make me his wife." -Unknown I had this in our wedding invitations in 1999
"Honesty is an expensive gift but don't expect it from cheap people." where I see this so that the cheap people are assumed to be gullible easily manipulated by mock-cheap things so there is no reason to trust easily-manipulative people.