An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great. So, just focus, and keep aiming. ":O) makes me wanna get an arrow tattoo
I honestly hate when people tell me this. They have no fucking idea how it feels to be at the point where you do cut. And I know they are trying to help but you can't do that. That's like telling a broken plate to put itself back together.