it's meaningless to say you're meant to be where you end up. It's arbitrarily renaming that 'where you're meant to be'. I don't believe anyone is meant to be anywhere. You are where you are, and end up where you end up.
don't keep people ın your life who insistently point out your insecurities with their dirty fingers! ''I have insecurities, of course, but I don't hang out with anyone who points them out to me'' - Adele