Don’t let the shadows of the past darken the doorstep of your future. Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead. Let what you’ve learned improve how you live. Make a change and never look back. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/01/08/8-things-to-remember-when-everything-goes-wrong/
You pick. I don't think it's bad to want stability instead of risk, but you have to have risked at least once in your life and seen it work. THEN, as you know stability can work but risking can also work, you can make a choice.