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timing- This is it doe me - everything happens for a reason and a reason was designed to happen now ! The challenge is to flow with it no matter how painful it will be
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Trust the timing of your life. Quote. Inspiration.
timing - Trust God's timing in my life
Wow, it has been a while. Let's just say life got in the way and it's taken me some time to find my way back to writing, to finding my happiness, to finding the positive in life. I know this is a lifestyle blog, usually filled with posts about outfits I've put together, trips Kyle and I have taken and things that just make me smile, like our dog Wooden. I will definitely be getting back to that but if I don't put these feelings into words, the chapter will never be closed. We all have a dream of how we'd like our lives to play out, our perfect plan. Each one of us has a unique dream, ours and ours alone, a vision so perfect, one would call it flawless. I would definitely call myself a dreamer and I think anyone close to me would say the same. Since I was a little girl I've always had visions of how I'd like my life to play out, the dreams where grand at times, I definitely have doe eyes when it comes to life, to me anything is possible. As my life has progressed I noticed myself checking things off that I've always dreamed of, whether it be running marathons, traveling, starting my own little business, to finding the man of dreams and him asking me to marry him. It was all falling into place, the life that I dreamed of was coming true. They say when you get to comfortable with life that you better be careful because life will come and knock you down when you least expect it. Kyle finished up his season in Orléans, France playing some of the best basketball of his career, which led to him signing a two year deal back with Orléans. We were ecstatic, this gave us stability, something which is very rare in the land of professional sports. So we thought it was the perfect time to start a family. Such an exciting time in a couples life and to our luck we got pregnant right away, our baby would be due St. Patrick's Day 2015. The moment you take that pregnancy test and see that positive sign, your life changes forever. My dream was coming true, I was going to be a mom and Kyle was going to make the perfect dad. We'd have our baby in France, nerve racking yes because we'd be away from our family and friends but it was what was best for our plan. We headed back to France in early August, the team moved us into a beautiful new home which included a pink bedroom and a blue bedroom, I was all smiles knowing that one of these rooms would be our baby's nursery. My main focus now was to prepare to become a mom, I downloaded apps, purchased books, did everything an expectant mom would do. Then sadly all at once it was taken away. At our first visit with the French doctor, what we saw wasn't what you should see at eleven weeks, our baby, our dream had passed away. I look back now and don't know how I kept it together in that doctor's office, I just listened to the doctor who told us I needed emergency surgery the next morning. I was paralyzed, this had to be a nightmare, I was going to wake up, everything was going to be fine, we were going to be parents and have a healthy, happy baby. No one prepares you for the loss that is a miscarriage, and to make matters worse Kyle and I were by ourselves, away from home, away from family, in a foreign country. It's so crazy how such amazing joy can be taken away from you in just a second. I felt my life was over, I felt I had failed, I felt empty and to see my husband so sad killed me. Our spark, our light was taken from us. I cried, I was sad, I closed the doors of the pink room and the blue room, I couldn't bear to look into them knowing that one was supposed to be a nursery. Most of all I was angry, I felt selfish but we were good people, we wanted a baby so badly and it was taken from us. I was hesitant to write about this, because for some reason to talk about miscarrying is taboo in our society. But it is now part of my life and to keep emotions and events bottled up inside you is no way to live. Our baby wasn't an embryo, our baby had a heart, our baby was a baby and we lost it. It's a pain I wish no couple would ever have to experience. The thing I heard most after we miscarried was, "Everything happens for a reason and when the time is right you and Kyle will be parents." Well Kyle and I are already parents, parents who suffered the loss of a child, as are all the other couples who've miscarried. Before this happened to us, I was blind to all of this and would probably say the same thing to someone who miscarried but now I am aware that it is so much bigger, it's something that you'll carry with you forever. Kyle and I grieved but knew that we had to find the positive, what happened to us sucked, it hurt, it changed our lives and how we'd move forward was very important. I focused on getting healthy both mentally and physically. Also having to learn not to be afraid of the future, this has to be the hardest thing because that experience was terrifying, scaring my mind and heart and I told Kyle that I couldn't bear for us to go through that again. Kyle was my rock and assured me that no matter what we are going to have the family of our dreams, we just had to trust life. I know in time we will be ready to take that leap into parenthood again, that we will have our perfect little James Kelly or Madelyn Elle. I am learning now to just trust the timing of our lives, when it will happen, it will happen. You can't stop dreaming, you can't stop living, it is ok to start smiling again. Don't be afraid to let hope back in, for me it was opening the doors to that pink room and blue room, because maybe one day one will be a nursery for our James or Madelyn. Life is always going to test you, it's going to knock you on your ass more times than you'd like but you'll get up, you'll keep dreaming, you have to because what would your life be without ups and downs, without dreams, it would be boring. A perfect life is a messy one, it's getting lost on your way to a dream and realizing you found a whole new dream that is just as amazing. It's taken me weeks to find the courage to write these words, to share our story. This is my closure, this is that little baby that lived inside my belly for two and half months telling me that it's ok for Kyle and I to start dreaming of the future, of other babies. I am not overly religious but I do know that that little babe is with me every single day and has given me courage and strength to never give up even when life gets tough. xoxo
Dont stress to much, dont try to change to many things in your life, where you want to be, you will be one day when the time is right. ~I need to remember this
Trust the timing of your life. Love this quote, so true:) #quoteoftheday @CBizSchool www.cbizschool.com
Former pinner said: "Someone told me to let go! Just let go! And don't be angry, upset, disappointed at people who aren't meant to be in your life..those who don't understand your love, and most of all are not worth your love anymore."
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List of the Top 20 Motivational Quotes
Heels take us to a higher power, too.
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34 Famous Fashion Quotes Perfect For Your Pinterest Board: To some, fashion is just about pretty clothes. Not me, I love shoes!
#VictoriaBeckham #fashion #quote #yestothat
I Can't Concentrate In Flats - Victoria Beckham | 34 Famous Fashion Quotes
We SO agree - don't you? #Fashion #FashionQuotes #QOTD
34 Famous Fashion Quotes Perfect For Your Pinterest Board
This Week’s Quote-Attract what you expect
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Good Advice - Southern Charm
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#idealshape #motivation #inspiration
This Week's Quote
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Different but best friends! #disney quote
Different but bestfriends . -Quotes Monster inc. I can't relate <3 no matter where life takes you, you will always be my only best friend forever.
Different but best friends #cute #baby #monstersinc
#different but best friend disney pixar ~#bff
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You are where God wants you to be at this very moment; every experience is part of his divine plan <3 A much needed daily reminder!
But, what if you're at a strip club? Or, in jail? Or, stuck at the desk at the end of a 85 hour work week with a family at home? Is everything really God's plan? Are you really here - or, there - because God willed it?
It's a good quote and I'll try to remember this. But it isn't really encouraging that God's divine plan for me right now is sitting in bed pinning things, think about it... Our responsibility too to be where He wants us to be
Quote on God's plan for each of us. Amazing the plans God has for us. They might not make sense but you will eventually realize why all things happen.
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)
Quote on God's plan for each of us. God is great (: !
and it's love: Photo
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Food for Thought
you're on the right path... quotes. advice. inspiration. motivation.
Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put is directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us.... Everything happens for a reason
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this is so true!! At least in our lives so far
The truth that I have lived by
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Things I thought when my boyfriend who is 10yrs younger than me asked me to be with him....
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Listen To Your Heart! I know what it is saying. The same thing as mine.
Live you life with the heart of a lion.
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"Before" Quote: Ernest Hemingway
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The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. #true #blindletterpress #print
this should be my life motto!
The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. Never thought of it that way
Words to Live By | The Time You Enjoy Wasting Is Not Wasted Time! | #seems_legit #wasted_time
The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. @Heather Raines - We need to remember this!
"Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time." - John Lennon
A time out? No, no...it's called a spanking. Go on. Act a fool. I'll demonstrate.
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LOL so true - parents should go back to spankings so the kids get the point!
That's how we do it. I was getting my oil changed at Wal-Mart one day and this guy commented on well behaved my kids were. (I wanted to laugh, but I said thank you.) He asked if we spanked our kids and I hesitantly replied "yes". He said it was very apparent because of how well behaved my kids were compared to the other kids running wild and he wished more parents would spank their kids because talking and time outs do no good. I couldn't agree more and I felt very proud that day.
A time out? No, no...it's called a spanking. Go on. Act a fool. I'll demonstrate. | Family Ecard | someecards.com
Did some just us a quote from my dad "Go on, act a fool"
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yep! #gags #funny story #funny photos
of course I talk to myself, funny pictures
Expert advice quote
#ecards #funny #humor #laugh #teamnissan #nissan #newhampshire #newengland
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Disney Quote: Winnie the Pooh- Christopher Robin
Disney Quotes. Love this!
Disney Movie Quotes - Winnie the Pooh
#Quote #WinniethePooh #ChristopherRobin
I have a tattoo of this quote, Love it!
good to always remember
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So true! Thanks to all that make me laugh!!!
My life motto :)
Surround yourself with people that make you belly laugh
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Inspirational Quote: "Always pray to have eyse that see the best in people, a heart that forgives the worst, mind that forgets the bad, and a soul that never loses faith in God." #quote #prayer
"Always pray to have eyes that see the best in people, a heart that forgives the worst, mind that forgets the bad, & a soul that never loses faith in God." >> "A perfect reminder."
A perfect reminder, wish everyone would remember this quote
I need to try harder to remember this. How lovely!
Need this as a daily reminder, need to remember this every moment of every day
I don't fart. I whisper in my panties.
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OMG!! Had to share, this is too funny not to! Made me laugh so hard.
Omg that is so funny Bahahaha!
Way too funny. Bahahaha!!!
OMG funniest thing ever lol
Too funny. This one is for "the girls" at work!!
The farting ecards are actually my favorite!
Funny Confession Ecard: I dont fart. I whisper in my panties.
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Funny Friendship Ecard: A friend will calm you down when you are angry, but a BEST friend will skip beside you with a baseball bat singing 'someone's gonna get it'. I miss my besties!
Boss Art Print / Society6
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work like a boss lady
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Lady work like a boss quote
Boss Art Print / Society6 like a boss
#girl #lady #man #boss #quote #motto #life #live #succeed #strength Great life motto.
I know how she feels..
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Life as a stay at home mom... Is it bad that I save my 'good' makeup for when I'm going out, and just use cheap stuff the rest of the time?
Funny Confession Ecard: Well, today was a complete waste of make up. Right!? It's so true sometimes, though.
How do you measure your non-sense days?
Well, today was a complete waste of make up. - Definitely have those days.
My life is definitely like that sometimes!
Ha! I've said this many times! It's either a complete waste of makeup or a cute outfit!
Well, today was a complete waste of makeup. #ecards
@ tasha, so true
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This is totally me and.... most of my friends ♡
We are so hilarious, I feel bad for the people who don't get to listen to our conversations and enjoy our hilariousness. Oh one the perks of having a best friend - enjoying the funny things in life to the extreme.
This is SO true of my sister and I!!
So true about me and my friends! LOL!
Yes, we are THAT freakin' funny people! #SomeEcards #Friendship #BFF #Quotes #LOL #Hilarious
Is your drama going to have an intermission soon? I need to pee.
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Is your drama going to have an intermission soon? I need to pee. (Can't. Stop. Laughing!)
drama intermission. This is a girl at work. ...Click this image to browse lots more great #quotes #funny pics!
Is your drama going to have an intermission soon? I need to pee. #ecards
Is your drama going to have an intermission soon? I need to pee. Haha so true, it's always a saga with you. #getoverit #getalife
That's the good thing about Twitter. I can read all your drama AND pee at the same time! @Devin Grant
#Drama #humor #truth
I want to be there when karma ass-fucks you with a cactus.